Manifestelle
Manifestelle
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birthday dinner drama, sober GenZ, Asian glow, and money rules with friends
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In this episode, Elle discusses the social dynamics of splitting the bill during group dinners, particularly birthday dinners. She shares her "Spoiled Girlie" rules for managing these situations. Elle also dives into the cultural trend of GenZ drinking less alcohol, and the benefits this has on their health and finances. She further explores the "Asian Glow" phenomenon, explaining the health risks associated with it. The episode concludes with a discussion about managing expectations and surrounding yourself with people who share similar values when...
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don't dim your light for anyone... EVER.
Просмотров 33 тыс.День назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of 'Big Sis Advice', Elle encourages her listeners to never dim their light for anyone. She discusses the importance of being true to oneself and not allowing others to influence or suppress their natural shine. Elle suggests if people ...
Hollywood's deadbeat fathers, the empathy gap, and women refusing to bear sons
Просмотров 101 тыс.14 дней назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of Elle's podcast, the discussion focuses on the issue of 'deadbeat' Hollywood fathers and how they often abandon their children once they achieve fame. This trend is used as a representation to highlight the empathy gap between men and...
shark tank hypocrites, male gold diggers, and THE AUDACIOUS PROJECTION: "YoU'Re a GoLd diGgEr"
Просмотров 44 тыс.14 дней назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle On today’s episode, we are talking about how men are the original gold diggers and you should be one too. We will cover how women are penalized for behaviors men are praised for and the sinister reason behind it. We are reacting to a clip from Shark Ta...
GOD WAS A WOMAN - a deep dive on catholicism, goddess worship, Jezebel, and how the matriarchy fell
Просмотров 68 тыс.21 день назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle delves into a discussion about a controversial commencement speech given by NFL kicker Harrison Butker Jr, which sparked backlash for suggesting that a woman's life truly begins with marriage and motherhood. Elle brings a unique p...
let them. let go. let GOD.
Просмотров 63 тыс.28 дней назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of Big Sis Advice, Elle guides listeners on embracing the mantra of "let them, let go, and let God". She emphasizes the importance of maintaining peace and not letting others disturb it. She explains the concept of karma and encourages ...
the downfall of dating apps, “nice” guys, right wing women, and revelations
Просмотров 133 тыс.Месяц назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this podcast episode, Elle delves into the downfall of dating apps, focusing on Bumble. She discusses the controversy surrounding Bumble's recent billboard ads and the backlash primarily from women. Elle then delves into the history of Bumble, found...
they're not TRAD WIVES... they're just RICH
Просмотров 103 тыс.Месяц назад
Try Rocket Money for free: RocketMoney.com/Manifestelle #rocketmoney #personalfinance In this episode, Elle discusses the rising trend amongst influencers like Nara Smith, Ballerina Farm aka Hannah Neeleman, and Emily Mariko who are wealthy, educated women showcasing domesticity and simple living rather than luxurious lifestyles. Elle argues this reflects the current societal value of time, pea...
debunking the MALE FANTASY - candid girlfriend, cool girl, manic pixie dream girl
Просмотров 183 тыс.Месяц назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses the stereotypes and societal expectations placed upon women, focusing on the concepts of the candid girlfriend, cool girl, manic pixie dream girl, and brain rot core. She ponders whether women are required to perform the...
even men don't trust other men*... but we're supposed to? lol no.
Просмотров 150 тыс.Месяц назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of her podcast, Elle dives into the discussion around women's fear of men, triggered by a social media trend where women were asked to choose between being trapped in the woods with a man or a bear. Elle unpacks the universal fear women...
the rise of LOSER men - consequence of women’s liberation or men’s ENTITLEMENT to women?
Просмотров 110 тыс.Месяц назад
Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle On this episode, Elle discusses the rise of loser men and how this phenomenon is less a consequence of women's liberation and more men's entitlement to women. Elle reacts to a video of a woman taking her baby father to a job interview at a fast food ch...
grown men will NEVER need your help - STOP HOUSING THE HOMELESS!
Просмотров 70 тыс.Месяц назад
Subscribe to the ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses a wild Coachella story. The narrative follows a group of men who exploited their connection to one woman to gain temporary housing during the festival. Elle emphasizes the importance of enforcing boundaries, especially in co-...
hookup culture is PSYCHOPATHIC [traditional baby daddy gets IG model pregnant then leaves her]
Просмотров 104 тыс.2 месяца назад
Subscribe to the ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses the detrimental impacts of hookup culture and the behaviors of certain men. She criticizes men who irresponsibly impregnate women and then coerce them into terminations, labeling such behavior as psychopathic. Elle zeroes in ...
the ultimate PICKME never gets picked + red pillers are trad dupes
Просмотров 223 тыс.2 месяца назад
In this episode, Elle covers why the ultimate PICKME never gets picked because of the FREE BIRD THEORY. She also critiques "red pillers" who preach traditional values without having been raised in them and so they take the worst parts of tradition and pass it off as the real thing. This episode is part of the "spoiled girlie support group" series where Elle encourages discernment, choosing the ...
the PICKME mom and NPC dad epidemic - daughters used for fame and money
Просмотров 76 тыс.2 месяца назад
The first 500 people to use my link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare skl.sh/manifestelle04241 In this episode, Elle delves into the topic of parents using their children for personal gain, especially focusing on mothers who prioritize their own desires for validation, fame, and wealth over their children's well-being. She discusses notable cases such as the experiences of Jennette Mc...
50/50 men are in survival mode [generational wealth, free bird theory]
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50/50 men are in survival mode [generational wealth, free bird theory]
weak men hurt women bc they're women-adjacent [men* punching NYC women]
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weak men hurt women bc they're women-adjacent [men* punching NYC women]
being BASIC is an act of self-love
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being BASIC is an act of self-love
men* date OUT of their league then ruin women's lives [the paradoxical cycle]
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men* date OUT of their league then ruin women's lives [the paradoxical cycle]
the good men are OFFLINE
Просмотров 143 тыс.3 месяца назад
the good men are OFFLINE
trad wives are indentured servants? - life after trad wife [broke, homeless, regret]
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trad wives are indentured servants? - life after trad wife [broke, homeless, regret]
healing our relationship with beauty [unpacking aging, beauty standards, radical acceptance]
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healing our relationship with beauty [unpacking aging, beauty standards, radical acceptance]
how to reclaim feminine energy [from masculine and miserable to feminine and thriving]
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how to reclaim feminine energy [from masculine and miserable to feminine and thriving]
who TF did I marry? [listen to your gut - divine intervention, intuition, discernment]
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who TF did I marry? [listen to your gut - divine intervention, intuition, discernment]
women are giving up on men [south korea’s 4B movement]
Просмотров 176 тыс.3 месяца назад
women are giving up on men [south korea’s 4B movement]
how to make female friendships EASY [4 mindset shifts]
Просмотров 75 тыс.3 месяца назад
how to make female friendships EASY [4 mindset shifts]
hating women is trendy BUT WHY? [caleb hammer financial audit]
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hating women is trendy BUT WHY? [caleb hammer financial audit]
men's obsession with women's “purity” and innocence + let’s talk about privilege[poor things review]
Просмотров 104 тыс.4 месяца назад
men's obsession with women's “purity” and innocence let’s talk about privilege[poor things review]
"i'm dating a broke guy but he has a great personality" [no he doesn't]
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"i'm dating a broke guy but he has a great personality" [no he doesn't]
"everything works out for me" [lucky girl + midas vibes]
Просмотров 70 тыс.4 месяца назад
"everything works out for me" [lucky girl midas vibes]

Комментарии

  • @down-to-earth-mystery-school
    @down-to-earth-mystery-school 21 час назад

    As a young girl, if I had the opportunity to learn about precolonial cultural history, I would have made different choices.

  • @kiterafrey
    @kiterafrey 21 час назад

    I hate that we're darmed if we do and darmed if we don't. If we don't want to share our body, we're not fulfilling our role. If was share our body, we're run through. A good man understands your body is yours, men * think your body is theirs.

  • @moastray5093
    @moastray5093 22 часа назад

    The girl of this videos look like a cartoon villian with his weird malicius eyes and his head and face having a certain form Nice

  • @ajkidd8609
    @ajkidd8609 22 часа назад

    It's the woman's duty to get a ring anyway. He should've left when he realised she wasn't gonna propose

  • @MaiRambles
    @MaiRambles 23 часа назад

    Ugh I love you

  • @daleprokopiuk9400
    @daleprokopiuk9400 23 часа назад

    Dating apps are just a waste of time!! And besides all women are exactly alike!!

  • @kiterafrey
    @kiterafrey День назад

    Cries in woman who always leaves bock text because she has ADHD and feels like she has to overexplain herself in order to make her idea clear because nothing is clear in her own head 😭

  • @janb92
    @janb92 День назад

    I laugh at the men threatening they're gonna start dating AI and robots and I'm like, that's not a threat......women want you to leave them alone. Also proves they only see women as living sex toys they can control.

  • @GodYermonia
    @GodYermonia День назад

    EVER!✔️ EVEN SERVANTS SHALL EVOLVE.✔️

  • @brianalaborious5630
    @brianalaborious5630 День назад

    I go to my local coop some things are cheaper but not everything. You can get fresh veggies for cheaper but like you’ll still feel it financially

  • @PalettePrincess97
    @PalettePrincess97 День назад

    Oh my gosh. I have dated too many men too many times who have told me right to my face who their dream girl was. Never again. Also never allow a man to have access to you without committing some way.

  • @cannibalfriends9655
    @cannibalfriends9655 День назад

    11:11 Was NOT mentally prepared for a Aqua Tofana reference 💀💀

  • @user-dn8hd6xn1e
    @user-dn8hd6xn1e День назад

    You are definitely on a different level of intelligence when it comes to this than most young women. I’ve been watching your videos and smiling because I’m older and been living with a steady good life provider man my whole adult life and you’re right, it’s like Fight Club, I’m not risking it! Car, tuition, house, attention, vacations, if you get that you are keeping that good MAN off your Instagram 😆, who cares if anyone knows what they’re missing, you don’t need to show it because you got it. THAT’S the thing, women seem to want to stick it to other women more than enjoy life. No one made my life hard but me. 💋

  • @Abundance1ness
    @Abundance1ness День назад

    I lost 50lbs and all of a sudden the world was so much kinder to me

  • @lauratanner6493
    @lauratanner6493 День назад

    Oh god I’m never leaving my state ppl are scary

  • @samanthapalker1476
    @samanthapalker1476 День назад

    A man: *threatens violence against women* Said woman: surrounds herself with men (and women) whom she pays to act as a deterrent to the violence

  • @hippyfizz63
    @hippyfizz63 День назад

    What about guy friends ? I understand my time and presence is valuable. However I love to for exemple going to festivals. And when I go to those parties with a some male friends I feel protected in a sense that only men can gain respect from a men, so it would he easier for my guy friends to defend me from ratchet men than my girl friends.

  • @tefischmidt
    @tefischmidt День назад

    Men aren't ready for a serious relationship until they have their identity, career, finances, maturity and mental health figured out. And many never figure these out. It's not our job as women to fix men. It's our job to focus on ourselves and to attract quality and healthy people into our lives. ❤

  • @GodYermonia
    @GodYermonia День назад

    Let just say that you are no longer allowed to say "Ill heal next lifetime."✔️

  • @nadini.weenie
    @nadini.weenie День назад

    when my parents divorced my siblings and i stayed with our dad but the only reason people know he has kids is when he talks abt us. and the empathy gap is so real bc he does not care about how or why we feel certain ways, he just doesnt want us to appear sad or upset and is pushing that onto my younger siblings, i feel so bad for them sometimes

  • @LG-zg8mw
    @LG-zg8mw День назад

    I used to be ok splitting the bill thinking what goes around comes around, and the next time maybe they would pay more. But in reality, I would always end up paying more because I am vegetarian and veg items are normally cheaper, and people would be ordering lobster and steak (the most expensive) and then not offering to pay for their own things. I’m done with that, I only go out to eat with people I know really well and I know they won’t put be in that situation where I have to pay for their meat.

  • @danielanieto7503
    @danielanieto7503 День назад

    I would love you to do more videos like this. Analysing movies or books recommendations that help us wake up, question ourselves and educate us! Something like this one or financial educative books...

  • @RedRose-fn7nh
    @RedRose-fn7nh День назад

    Men in my country take immense pride in being the provider and protector of the household. My question is who is raising these men and are they really not ashamed of themselves ?

  • @AmeliaHicks-hw6jn
    @AmeliaHicks-hw6jn День назад

    You know what, I’m pansexual and I have options. Forget dating cis men. It’s just too much effort for so little.

  • @margaritamadrid
    @margaritamadrid День назад

    You're so smart and witty, bestie!!! 😊❤

  • @Pookiepossum
    @Pookiepossum День назад

    The issue is that it's not on the girl It's that the men don't see these girls as full humans He knows the bare minimum about her and shows that as her personality. She has thoughts and feelings and desires. He just doesn't care. Then other women get mad at her for that? It's giving getting mad at the girl he cheats on you with instead of him vibes. He probably lied to her like he lied to you sis. Put the blame where it belongs, the men.

  • @chadsensei-ue6jn
    @chadsensei-ue6jn День назад

    Sorry, ladies, the princes get snagged up fast and the frogs really are turning gay. Avoid the toads.

  • @skrlreels2060
    @skrlreels2060 День назад

    My dad would constantly lecture me about not being dependent on a man. He’d say have my own house, car, money and learn how to change my own tire, oil, etc. My Dad trusted no man and said men are lazy bums. (he used curse words, tho) 😂😂 He knew. Thank you, daddy.

  • @heatherswanson5844
    @heatherswanson5844 День назад

    "You need to wake up to how much you benefit every single man that comes in contact with you" 💃👏👏

  • @betsygirl488
    @betsygirl488 День назад

    Facts. Toxic men make women ugly.. whilst women pour life force into man, making him shine. A lesson in discernment & trusting our intuition. A HEALTHY man, will also pur life into a women. You will notice the difference x

  • @RiniDiamandis
    @RiniDiamandis День назад

    20:16 this made me instantly think of that movie 10 Cloverfield lane

  • @maiwenfagot1043
    @maiwenfagot1043 День назад

    Iconic video

  • @maiwenfagot1043
    @maiwenfagot1043 День назад

    This is a really interesting video. But at the end i believe the conclusion can be explained. Here is my take. Our perception of ourselves have been dictated all our life by movies, cultures, others… So much that it s easy to fall into ideas that don t bring value to us, but only to others. But some of us trying to run away from those expectations fell into an other extreme, hate those who do fit. Because at the end of the day this pomegranate girl exist. And as the video said, she does have an inner life that is worth celebrating BUT because of her man’s personnal intention that is not appreciated. Because he doesn t appreciate it. The core of this video is acceptance, creating place for women to define their own life. BUT also mainly, to remind women that the problem is MEN, not all, but those who fail to appreciate a woman qualities because he is blinded by his own desire and exception. Because those men don t love their partner! The love of easily they can push an agenda on them! Don t hate the pomegranate girl, hate the men who fail to see she is more than that! Don t hate the indépendant girly she is not your limit, nor is the homemaker stay at home wife… To realise they don t have to be your goals but only theirs, is to love women. Hate the system that put us against each other, benefiting from our choices. And for those women who are too blinded by society to hate them, is to hate the victims!

  • @zenlife321
    @zenlife321 День назад

    If you marry or commit to an abusive person, your life will be miserable - job or not job. But I say have skills anyways. Know and support yourself enough to not be with a controlling abuser.

  • @evergreen1326
    @evergreen1326 День назад

    Well yes but in the end it is still out fault we even look in men's direction. I truly believe there are many women with internalised mysoginy who don't have a feminist around them to see how they live a miserable life compared to the feminists

  • @cdwall00
    @cdwall00 День назад

    Rosalind Franklin!!!

  • @eb1042
    @eb1042 День назад

    Hi Elle! MY name is Elle!!!😊 Guess what? November 18th is my b-day.. When is yours? I 🧡 YOU BTW❗

  • @Rinoaeris
    @Rinoaeris День назад

    I remember being on holiday once and wanted to use the pool and spa. There were these 2 girls hogging the spa and judging everyone who walked past. So I went in the pool. 5 minutes later the girls hop in the pool. Wherever I would swim, they would get in the way. So I got out, with the intention of going to the spa. They immediately get out and run to the spa and I hear them say "Quick! Before she gets there!". Man wtf? I didn't even know these girls and they were mean!

  • @spliffanii
    @spliffanii День назад

    My mom can be a heavy “boymom” to my /twin/ brother and he hasn’t spoken to her since January… it ain’t a joke fr

  • @curtalaura796
    @curtalaura796 День назад

    Listen. It's not even all about cheating and you not being attractive enough. It's about him suffering from an illness. Him being dead. Him not being able to provide anymore. Then what? Even if you have a good education, if you have a huge gap in your CV you end up working for little money to support the whole household. I get it if you stay at home for a few years. If you work part time only. If you open your small business. The important thing is: DO SOMETHING. Because his love can't win in the face of tragedies and then what? Yes, he might leave behind some money but how long will that money last? Even if he wants the best for you and finds you attractive even after 15+ years of marriage and what not, you don't know when life hits you hard and his love isn't enough to feed the children and pay the bills. So many focus on cheating and these kinds of behaviour and don't take into account that life has other ways to send sadness and misfortunes your way, too

  • @jackielaroga5408
    @jackielaroga5408 День назад

    Just saw this news in Philippines that a man hits random women because they're pretty.

  • @nowdepartingordinary
    @nowdepartingordinary День назад

    You have the BEST content. You are literally changing my life with each video.

  • @rhiakaty9864
    @rhiakaty9864 День назад

    Your channel is the absolute best! Really helping me after years of abusive relationships and uniformed decisions

  • @SheDetective
    @SheDetective День назад

    I was invited to a birthday party. I came late and missed the dinner portion, I let them know ahead of time I would be arriving later. Anyway a week later, I get a group message notification that the cost of decorations, cake and food is 40 each, split by 10 people. (Bday person not included in the chat just the guests). Im all for splitting the bill to make a friends bday special, the part that got me is that no one discussed it with me beforehand, and I didn’t even eat the food so why would they include me on that 😂 I paid my share but mentioned “just fyi I didn’t actually eat”

  • @dam21114
    @dam21114 День назад

    If you already think that being with a man is labor you should just stay single forever and not enter the dating pool period. This is just a cringe as watching an “alpha male” video. Honestly insane that some women don’t see the parallels between the two.

  • @tefischmidt
    @tefischmidt День назад

    So, when he asks "What's your type?", we can answer with "a good man." (Let him figure out what that is).

  • @soup9508
    @soup9508 День назад

    17:40 girlie was blessed with the gift of discernment fr fr

  • @Pookiepossum
    @Pookiepossum День назад

    What men say they want & what men show they want through their actions arent the same Hope Pearl gets that and chooses to respect herself

  • @rolofrangipan3719
    @rolofrangipan3719 День назад

    And also you’ve hit the nail on the head totally!!!! my exes gf/mistress thinks she’s won a prize but if a man doesn’t care about his own kids he won’t care about you and yours. It’s not a prize. I would judge a man who had kids and rarely saw them or bad mouthed his ex harshly

  • @rolofrangipan3719
    @rolofrangipan3719 День назад

    Men just don’t love their kids in the same way…I learned that post divorce. They will say they want the kids more etc but the reality is, they leave and realise how much freedom they have without the kids full time.